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[quote=Anonymous]I’m very sorry, and this sounds like a horrible shock for you, especially since the counseling was over the phone, not face to face. Counseling doesn’t always “help” by fixing a relationship. Sometimes the help is assessing things realistically, and moving on from there. Reading your description of your husband “checking out” —if accurate— doesn’t suggest a reality that involves two people committed to working on a relationship. There are a few times that I could imagine a counselor doing something like this. One is if one of the clients flat out doesn’t want to work, doesn’t even want to drift, but just wants out. Another is when there is a clear lack of respect — which “lying a lot” might suggest. I hope you have a good lawyer and a good therapist of your own — who can help you process these difficult challenges as you go forward. [/quote]
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