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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry, OP. Alcoholism runs in my family, and I’ve dated several alcoholics, and I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through. His behavior is unacceptable. Right now, your focus needs to be on you and your new baby. He is responsible for his own sobriety, not you. So please don’t feel like you need to “force him into treatment” like a Pp said (you can’t force an addict into recovery). It’s easy to say what you “should” do - leave him - but in reality it’s never that easy or simple. So don’t feel pressured to leave right away, either. But if you want to leave, then absolutely leave. You don’t owe him anything, your priorities need to be yourself and your baby. The most important thing you can do for yourself is get into Al-Anon. It was a life saver for me. I also found the book series “Getting Them Sober” extremely helpful. And start building up a support system of family and friends. [/quote]
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