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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know that the team is bad. But that is okay too. As someone else pointed out this is a learning experience. This is a chance to see if your son is a leader and can help the other kids. Does your son rise to adversity or apparently like your husband - quit. Not everything in life will come easily or naturally. A JV basketball team is an excellent environment to see what your son's character is made of - much better than when he is 30 and working a time sensitive work project that is not coming together and his job is on the line. [/quote] +1 This is a great opportunity for him to grow as a person. It’s not his main sport, and everyone who knows basketball will be able to read the team situation instantly, so he his ego should not be involved in wins or losses. He will impress absolutely everyone, including the varsity coaches for the MS and HS (who will surely be keeping tabs), if he sticks with it, takes it seriously and works to improve the team instead of playing down to their level. There is zero pressure here to do anything other than be active and a good sport, and he can have fun if he shakes off his frustrations. Have him watch the original Bad News Bears. [/quote] +1. You have a great learning and character building opportunity being handed to you on a silver platter Also as someone who would have been one of the bad kids on the team I wish schools didn't have these requirements.[/quote]
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