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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a rough time with my kids when they were little like yours, I probably walked around just like your husband. 
As soon as I could start having conversations with the kids it all kind of turned around for me and now being with them is a joy.
You sound like a really nice woman but  You need to stop making him happy by sacrificing what you need and want, it’s only going to lead to distance, frustration and the eventual collapse of intimacy and then your marriage. 
Ask me how I know.    [/quote]I'm hoping this is it! It's been rough for both of us. My mom says our kid is like 2 in 1 with all that energy and no way to communicate. I just want us to view this as an obstacle we have to overcome as a team. Us versus parenting. We genuinely enjoy our time together. When we go on vacation without the baby or even just get a night a way, we go back to how we were when we were dating. I really enjoy his company.[/quote]

I’m glad you two have a good foundation and enjoy each other but I can’t tell you enough how important it is to not let these things go, you need a plan to work together to get through the rough patch, if you just placate him it will blow up in your faces. 
Almost at this moment I am working on the things that happened 17 years ago and those little tiny things that just got swept under the rug have become huge. [/quote]

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