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[quote=Anonymous]Why did he take the initiative and disclose this to you in the first place? Was the guilt too strong for him to handle or would you have found out anyway?? I believe if they made out & had foreplay then they likely ended up going all the way because what would stop them!? To hear about this transgression when you are expecting his 3rd child is just awful. You may try to be understanding now > but for the rest of your marriage you will always be second-guessing him 24/7. He destroyed your ultimate trust and sadly you will be the one wasting so much time, energy + emotion on trying to gain it back. It is exhausting. Your resentment will likely build up over the years too. This will not end well. But being pregnant I can also see how you may feel it is much easier to stay in your comfort zone since you are in a very vulnerable state.[/quote]
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