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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has he articulated what he’s willing to change to address the reasons you broke in the first place?  Have you?  [/quote]

OP here. He’s a little older than me and is ready for marriage and kids. I want to get married but want to wait a couple more years to have kids. This is thy r main issue, but there is also city vs suburbs and which state we would raise our kids in. [/quote]

These are MINOR details you can compromise on - if you really love each other these are EASY.

He probably just misses the sex after a month away. And often a first breakup is just the rehearsal for the final one.

Stop wasting our time.[/quote]
If they could easily compromise on them, they wouldn’t have broken up over it.  For some reason, it’s *not* easy for them to compromise on these things.

If you want to get back together with him, OP, work these issues out first before you get back together.  Don’t waste your time spending another year with him only to break up again for exactly the same reasons.[/quote]

LEARN TO READ TO THE END OF THE SENTENCE..easy to compromise on  "if you really love each other". [/quote]

Not necessarily. What if they both have careers they feel passionate about, but one’s job is tied to this area and the other’s requires them to move every few years?  You can truly love someone but also not be willing to give up something else you love, or be willing to ask the person you love to give up something they care about deeply to follow you.[/quote]

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