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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My aunt passed away when my cousins were ages 8-15. Their dad met his second wife about two years later and they married after another few years. I was very close with my cousins and we saw each other frequently, and met my uncle’s wife shortly after she met the kids (before they got engaged). She is very different from my aunt, but I don’t believe anyone in the extended family was upset about uncle moving on and we’ve always included their family in get together, even though it was my uncle by marriage. She moved into their childhood home and took my uncle’s last name. I do think she redecorated the bedroom and eventually a lot of the house, but kept up pictures of my aunt and never got rid of her things. She and my uncle kept them until the kids were adults and let the kids decide what they wanted to keep. She falls the kids her kids (as in she loves them like they are her own), but refers to herself as a bonus mom when others ask. The kids call her by her first name - one of them calls her a nickname they I think is a sweet alternative to mom. Wishing you all the best![/quote]

OP here. Thank you so much for sharing this. it's very sweet and I can only hope that if we get to the point of marriage it goes this well. Trick or treating went well tonight. One day at a time.[/quote]

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