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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whew! ….All the women in this thread saying it’s NBD.

Admittedly, I’m not married, but I wouldn’t put up with this, OP. I think you should tell him you don’t like that he calls you those names. Take it from there.[/quote]

If you’re not married then honestly you’ve got no room to talk. 
I’ve been married 16 years and sometimes we tell and curse at each other. We have a very strong relationship and always work it out. Not every relationship will look the same. [/quote]

I was raised in an extremely abusive household.  Mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abusive.  I have been married for 14 years and my husband and I NEVER call each other names.  We just don’t do it.  We do fight, but really work to make sure there are no insults or cursing.  If you do, you have crossed a line and I would not be okay with this. I understand every relationship is different, but I also worked very very hard as a single person to learn how to express my feelings before I started seriously dating because of my history. I don’t think insults and belittling are okay in a marriage.  I do know that if you belittle and name call your chances of divorce are much higher than people who can talk it out. Best of luck to you, but I think there is a level of dysfunction you are comfortable with if you insult regularly. [/quote]

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