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[quote=Anonymous]Ask her whether it's because there are things that would make it easier to have a family that you can change (like a lighter schedule -- unless she's in the thick of residency, there are doctor jobs that are lighter loads like working at a doctor's office vs. hospital). Or if she just doesn't want a kid in her heart. Please don't pressure her -- the burden of pregnancy/birth is already unfairly weighted toward the woman. And you may not want to have a kid at 50, but women are MUCH more time-constrained than you by nature of biology. People do change their minds about this. I changed mine in the opposite direction (wanted 2 kids vs. 0) and then again (wanted 1 kid vs. 2). Thankfully my spouse was fine with anywhere from 0-2. [/quote]
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