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She is not on “one more chance.”  OP raised having a child 2 years ago and every 6 months since then.  She blew him off every single time.

And she continues to take on more and more work.  How much more clear does she have to be before OP gets the message?  She does not want to have a child with OP.

Sorry not sorry; she doesn’t get another chance.

Lawyer up and divorce her now.  You are not getting any younger OP.  You deserve better than this.[/quote]

I see that this may be heading for divorce.  I would have left my DH if he flipflopped on this most important issue.  But if this is the only issue in their marriage, they need to hash it out one last time where OP puts everything on the table.  DH and I aren't the best communicators and there have been times in our marriage where I needed to be more assertive about my needs, but once I did that, we worked things out.

I think OP will feel better if he does decide to leave if he has at least one last conversation on the issue where he seeks first to understand where she's at on the issue by letting her talk first, then he takes a turn and tells her he can't stay with her if she doesn't want to have kids with him soon.  If nothing else, it is much easier to move on if you have closure in your last relationship.  [/quote]

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