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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When is the last time you had a serious discussion on this issue?  In my opinion, you should ask for a lunch or dinner date and preview what you want to discuss so she has time to mentally prepare, then explain to her that you need to have kids and you're ready now and see where she stands on the issue. You can't walk away from your marriage without giving her at least one more chance or it may haunt you.  She may not understand how much this issue is weighing on you.  Also, I think you need to be ready to discuss how involved you plan to be as a parent.  She might be worried that she's going to end up doing 75% of the parenting plus work a stressful job.  [/quote]

She is not on “one more chance.”  OP raised having a child 2 years ago and every 6 months since then.  She blew him off every single time.

And she continues to take on more and more work.  How much more clear does she have to be before OP gets the message?  She does not want to have a child with OP.

Sorry not sorry; she doesn’t get another chance.

Lawyer up and divorce her now.  You are not getting any younger OP.  You deserve better than this.[/quote]

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