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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’re signed up for a gray divorce. Been so meh for years, nothing in common. Sad. [/quote]

Was it different when you got married?[/quote]

NP here, same situation and we are probably going to get divorced in 4 years when the youngest leaves for college (although my wife may or may not see it the same way).

It was absolutely great when we got married. I would say the first 10 years of our relationship were really, really good. I would have said we were among the happiest and luckiest people in love.

I am sure I share some blame but we really neglected each other for a number of years. Too much resentment and now indifference. I want another shot and love, sex and intimacy.[/quote]

I'm sorry to hear this. If the foundation is strong, might there be things you can do to reprioritize the marriage once you're empty nesters?[/quote]

In my experience, it's too late at that point. You can't neglect your spouse for years, either emotionally or sexually and then expect them to forget it when the kids are gone. Too much resentment[/quote]

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