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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ADHD son has the opposite problem. There is a girl who has a crush on him. She likes him one day then hates him the next day. He comes home with letters and drawings from her. She kicked him a few weeks ago and nothing was done because he is seen has a kid with some behavior problems who must have done something to upset her. Recently, she got him in trouble at school by lying about him. He missed some recesses but now I am concerned she might get really mad and try to get him suspended. His sister is sort of friends with this girl. She told our daughter that she is sorry about lying and wants to apologize to him next week. His sister has saved some screenshots of messages where she said she is sorry that he got in trouble because of those lies. We are saving the letters and drawings also just in case. My son said he wanted to change schools because of this. This girl lives with her grandma and may not have a lot of supervision. I am trying to figure out how best to intervene for my son because he does not have the skills to deal with this. OP’s situation might be very different but I think parents or grandparents should try to limit obsessive behavior because it can be stressful for the kids who are on the receiving end of the obsession.[/quote]

Huh? Even before you laid out the evidence  I was saying "go tell.the school your side". Now that you have the screen shots - even more so.
March into that school and speak with the vice principal and counselor and teacher.
Tell them your son is being harassed and has been unjustly punished because of this targeted harassment and you deman that it stop.

As a SN parent we tend to think no one is going to understand or our kid won't be believed etc and so we do k down when there's trouble. Bit you owe it to your child and yourself to stand up for him and demand it stop. 
If it was a boy who kicked a girl and lied and gaslight the adults etc it would be a different picture.
Go stand up for your son![/quote]

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