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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my spouse will be angry.  He thinks our relationship is fine.  I’ve told him many times it’s not, we have gone to counseling twice.  He hasn’t changed.  He is too focused on work. Divorce will upend his easy life, so I expect it will get ugly.  I want to prepare and get organized before things get heated so it can go as smoothly as possible. [/quote]

Make sure your lawyer is aware of his personality or likely mental disorders. 
Only use text and emails going forward and do Yellow Rock now and going forward.

He sounds delusional and unable to talk with or mediate.  Sorry these are usually the mentally disordered High Conflict types in court and the ones who will go falsely disparage you to anyone who will listen to him. [/quote]

I disagree. My ex also thought our marriage was fine. Some men don't need a relationship. It took me years of saying we really need a divorce until he accepted it and it was completely amicable by the time we got to a divorce. If I had done grey rock, that is when I would have had a high-conflict divorce. Mine upended his life a bit but whatever.[/quote]

Great, I hope for everyone’s sake and pocketbooks OP’s spouse accepts the divorce and is amicable!  Especially since a k-12 child is involved and it is not a gray divorce. [/quote]

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