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[quote=Anonymous]Hi. I don't think you have a problem, based on the position of not wanting to date. However, if you think this is truly a problem, perhaps some friends or a therapist can help you sort out what you want to do regarding dating, or not dating. Are you worried not wanting to date means there is something pathological going on? Like you've become an antisocial loner? Or what bothers you about this situation?

FWIW, I am 47, divorced with two teenagers, and I don't want to date either, so you aren't alone. I had a steady BF for about 5 years after my divorce, mainly for sex and for travel/outings companion. Also, I really wanted someone to celebrate holidays and birthdays with, because it felt sad to me, to be alone on those days if kids are not with me. Lately, I'm finding I'd rather only do stuff with my kids or my family, and then also be by myself. BF is not long for this world, but actually, he probably feels about the same.

Our need or desire for companionship changes over time. [/quote]

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