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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband was very disrespectful to me and drove me to tears many times. J chose to end our marriage and I was at peace with it until recently. I miss him but I am not sure why. He never put me first and I don't think he ever would but my heart is breaking the past 24 hours. I am a little resentful that he goes out with friends, ignores texts about the kids, and answers when he feels like it. I don't know if I miss him or if I am upset that he is continuing on and does not seem to be missing me at all. [/quote]

It sounds like he’s doing what he wants and he’s not responding to your texts.  Is there a chance that you miss being in control of him and your family?[/quote]
Wtf does “doing what he wants” mean for an abuser?

More likely he seeks his control and manipulation fix via toying with his kids, not following the custody order, and not responding to the mother.

Custody orders have clauses for a narcissist, abusive, or neglectful parent like this for daily communication and 24 hour response time, as well as text apps that both lawyers have access to to monitor abusive behavior and comments, as well as document being in contempt of court for not following the custody order.  Do it enough and you are back in court getting a new custody arrangement or more parenting classes, anger mgmt classes, and more coparenting classes— if not already mandated during the litigation or mediation. [/quote]

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