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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] For the people who are weighing only the "ultimate outcome" for their kids, public school probably makes the most sense. But there are many people who care as much about the process of getting to the end result as the result itself. I assure you that my parents don't consider their money for private PK-12, private college then private grad school wasted on my social worker sister who will probably never break $50k/year in salary. She's a happy, confident, well-round adult who is contributing positively to our society. Much of who she has become, and the values she picked up along the way, come from our private schooling. I had the same educational experience she did and I am a lawyer. I don't know if the "ultimate outcome" for us career-wise would have been much different had we gone to public school. However, we both feel very grateful for having experienced the loving, nurturing, community of our school and for all the extras (from classes to trips) that were incorporated into our educational experience. I was never just a number or just another kid in the class. I was always made to feel like an important and valued member of our school community. I believe that this really helped me overcome the extreme shyness I faced as a child and to become the self-assured person I am today. [/quote] I appreciate this response. (I was the one you are responding to.) It's interesting how each perspective on this depends upon her own education. I did not find my private school nurturing or loving; I found it ruthlessly competitive and I found my fellow students selfish and entitled. I think my own perspective comes from the fact that if I had stayed in public school I would have reached a similar outcome in my life without nearly as much heartache and stress. So I guess it really depends WHICH public school and WHICH private school. [/quote]
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