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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need to stop engaging the moment his tone turns nasty. Your mistake is trying to explain your side. STOP doing that! The moment he turns nasty you walk away. You disengage. The fewer words you speak, the better. You need to SHOW him. Telling him is ineffective, so stop talking. You can tell him to do it himself or simply that the conversation is over. Immediately walk away. You do not raise your voice—and do not pick up the Amazon package off the floor under any circumstances. It stays there until he deals with it. If he follows you, you can say “I’m done talking.” Say it once, say it calmly and be DONE. Do not engage anymore. [/quote]
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