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[quote=Anonymous]Couples counseling. When someone else noted the post was similar, I was wondering if my prior posts would have fit that bill. My husband and I have a fairly equitable share of the household. I am the main wage earner and does a bit more of the pickups and everything else is generally split. But, he has a need to control the house and can be quite short and authoritarian. I hate the kids see this dynamic. Recently, he was agitated by my leaving on video controls for the kids a few times so he was going to take away my administrator access and have to text him to let the kids use devices when he is not home. Or lecture me about some housework issue, etc. Our issues are bigger than this one issue, but for your situation, his reaction to you is not okay and you need a way to talk about it with an understanding of how to navigate those issues in a different way. If you can’t achieve this in a conversation between you both, you need a third party to help navigate why he reacts that way, how he can stop that reaction and how you can help de-escalate (if possible).[/quote]
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