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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The part about his friend and his GF agreeing not to tell him is super weird.

It would be one thing if somehow it just hadn't come out, but discussing it and agreeing to keep it a secret would raise all sorts of red flags for me.

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Yeah, this. For me it's not so much the sex, it's scheming, and the secret-keeping for over a year, that I would find unsettling.[/quote]

I would find it unsettling that my best friend was so afraid telling me the truth that he would keep this secret for over a year.  What would it say about me if my best friend couldn’t trust me to react rationally to this?[/quote]

Yet it was the friend who ultimately told him. And I kinda get the perspective of the friend, as a friend you walk a fine line between staying cool with your friend and trying not to interfere with their relationships. MAybe he wanted to give the girlfriend a chance to come clean.

Maybe more went on between them than is being said.  NO matter how hard you try, you aren't going to spin it so the girlfriend is an innocent party.[/quote]

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