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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you marry and do gender selection with an asshole, OP? He sounds awful.[/quote]

I kind of agree.  He had two girls, who he was unwilling to connect with, and you agreed to have a boy because he thought he'd love him more, only that boy, unsurprisingly, wasn't just how he imagined him?  How unbelievably toxic for all your kids.[/quote]

Yes, I’m sorry but you absolutely signed up for this, OP. By agreeing to do gender selection ivf after you already had two girls and knew who your husband was and how he acted, you doomed your whole family to this toxic, unhealthy dynamic forever. How awful for your daughters who know they weren’t enough for him, that he doesn’t care to be their dad.  And even worse for your son who knows, or soon will, that he isn’t living up to your husbands idiotic ideals. I don’t usually jump to divorce, but in this case that might be the only this to save your kids from a lifetime of poor self esteem.  They will always know they weren’t enough for their dad.  If you stay with him you are signaling that that’s okay with you.[/quote]

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