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[quote=Anonymous]What you need to discuss and work on before marriage is compromise and flexibility. It is great to acknowledge and accept each other the way you are, but it is not OK for one of you to always be the one in your comfort zone, and the other always the one compromising. You need to find the balance in the ship. He's the anchor, you are the sail, but you need to let him know that sometimes the relationship needs to pull up anchor and unfurl the sail; just remember to find the quiet port again to regroup. Also make darn sure he's OK with you sailing off without him sometimes, and you are OK if he stays behind sometimes. Also with kids: do you want them to see the world? Will he go along with that? Will he join you at social functions with people you don't know well -- lots of expectations around that once kids are in school.[/quote]
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