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[quote=Anonymous]Been there OP. It’s a resource issue on two levels— the money which is what you’re using as a proxy (I think) but then the opportunity cost of doing this one trip at the expense of all other vacations since you use your leave and travel budget exclusively on this. What worked for us was a candid conversation together about my frustration ending in the agreement that airplanes worked just as well in both directions. Then we agreed on how much time with his family that we year, and half that time we flew to them, half that time we invited them on a trip of our choosing. Sometimes they accepted sometimes they declined but I enjoyed my visits to them much more when I didn’t feel like it was a forced in-law tax.[/quote]
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