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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The pandemic has been tough on marriages. I don't think my DH or I would complain like that to friends when the other one wasn't around (we might complain, but in a lighter, more general way, not a full indictment), but we have some rough days and our friends definitely see it at times.

We know we're in a kind of crappy place right now and working on it, and have zero plans to split up. Neither of us want that. It's just been a really terrible couple years and it's taken a toll on our marriage. It is what it is. In good times and in bad and all that. Hello, 18 months of struggling with childcare, being together all the time, having little to know ability to rely on family or even the occasional babysitter, the general stress of both Covid and lots of social upheaval, mental health issues abound with the mental health services strained to the max, etc. This is one of the bad times for a lot of us. If this makes you throw in the towel, then it could have been anything, honestly.[/quote]

Agree with all this. The pressure cooker of the pandemic is a terrible time to judge relationships. I will bet when this is over the ones who come out strong aren’t the ones you will expect and vice versa. This just isn’t a typical situation.[/quote]

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