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[quote=Anonymous]As a child of divorce whose parents were BOTH too selfish and immature to communicate appropriately, I am begging you not to cut off the in laws. I had almost no relationship with my dad's side of the family after the divorce, and once my grandmother, and two years later my dad died, I had no relationship with aunts/uncles/cousins at all. None. Any relationship had to be initiated by me--a CHILD--and it was stupid and unfair. The kids lose. Go ahead an slow the communication with the ex, that's on him, but don't cut off the inlaws. They're were helping you out and it's not their fault you married a loser and procreated with him. For the sake of your kid, keep that going. Foster a relationship even thought it's hard, better yet if you invite the grandparents over for dinner or a holiday once in a while. If you cut them off, your kid will resent you. Guaranteed.[/quote]
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