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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused why he would be communicating with you through those avenues. Something doesn't make sense... But to answer your question you keep doing the things you have been doing because it benefits your son, in a few more years you can hand things over to him completely. Don't hurt your son to spite your ex. As for communication, you tell your in-laws you will be communicating with EX directly. That's it. That's the adult thing to do.[/quote] I’m the pp who grew up in a similar situation to op’s son. I think a lot of people think this type of thing will be more helpful than it is. In many ways it’s more hurtful to received confusing and mixed messsges from people trying to cover for an absentee parent (mom says dad loves me and is looking forward to seeing me yet dad keeps forgetting to call/looks bored when we talk and he forgot I play goalie) than processing/grieving the actual relationship. [/quote]
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