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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, we lost my cat of 22 years last summer and it took me almost 6 months until I stopped crying over it regularly (I'm sure someone will call me a loser for that, but it's true). After a few weeks everyone other than DH was telling me to get over it, but I just needed time. I was so so devastated. I still miss her every day but I promise your life grows around the grief. We adopted a rescue in the spring who is completely different from our old cat and will never replace her, but I've come to love her nonetheless.

The new kitty helped, moving things that belonged to my old cat out of sight for the first little bit helped, getting outside and spending time doing distracting things with friends, and also just being kind to myself and knowing that the grief was so intense because we had shared such a close bond and love.

Sending you love and peace. When you are ready another pet does help you channel the love you have into something positive. You can think about it as honoring the legacy of your late dog by giving another a great life. [/quote]

OP here.  I'm so sorry about the loss of your cat.  I can't imagine having a pet in my life for 22 years and then losing him/her.  I'm glad that you've found some joy and love with your new cat.

We have our pugs ashes in a little box on our mantle, and I'm embarrassed to say that sometimes I hug the box, cry, and tell him how much we miss him.  I think giving all of this love to a dog who needs me will be the best next step.

Again, I'm sorry for your loss and wish you the best.[/quote]

PP here - don't be embarrassed. It really is a testament to the love you shared with your pug. Thanks for the kind words and also wishing you the best ❤️[/quote]

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