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[quote=Anonymous]This is a perfect example of why we all need to abide by The Four Agreements. Don't take it personally. I know it's hard, but your "two weekends after surgery" are someone else's "two weekends getting the kids back to school/updating my resume/negotiating my divorce/dealing with my aging mother" Believe that your friends care and give them the opportunity to show it. Don't just hide in your hidey hole feeling sorry for yourself because no one else is living your life. Tell them you want support and tell them exactly how you want to be supported. Post on FB whatever you're feeling now and whatever you'd like them to do about it. This is why I tell everyone when it's my birthday -- because I like my birthday and I like hearing 'Happy birthday." And sadly enough, the cashier at my grocery store doesn't remember my birthday until I remind him. Then I get the best smile and the warmest Happy Birthday ever. It works.[/quote]
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