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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I called myself a half-stepper because I am a long-time SAHM who could be doing so much more. DH does not mind. He considers me a full-stepper in what matters most to him: caring for our family: but objectively speaking, I am no Kamala Harris by DCUM standards. OP is not willing to settle.  He should not ruin his own or her life by doing so. [/quote]

PP, you sound perfectly fine - great actually - and what OP needs to understand is that the vast majority of people are not going to be able to satisfy his every need.  OP should be asking what he brings to the table for his gf.  A relationship is a two way street.  Maybe OP has annoying traits too, like having unrealistic expectations, but his gf is willing to overlook those shortcomings for the greater good of the relationship.

Also OP, it is true in any close relationship you will be exposed to people having to use the bathroom, getting sick or having bad days.  If you aren’t able to tolerate basic humanity you will always be disappointed in any close relationship you have.  [/quote]

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