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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually believe you can find the woman who will keep you extremely sexually excited for years but there will be a price to pay. The kind of person who focuses on optimizing her physical attractiveness is less likely to invest as much effort in other parts of the relationship. [/quote]

So you're basically saying you can't get compatibility and sexual chemistry to be sustained with one person?[/quote]

I am not saying that. Some people -- think Kamala Harris -- are driven to excel in whatever they do.  When it's time for intimacy, you know she is pulling out La Perla just as she guns for the top professionally. OP has clearly chosen someone who is not like this. He has chosen someone like me, a half-stepper. I put  a lot of myself into remaining alluring but am a dud, professionally speaking.  The unicorns like KH can have their pick. Is OP willing to step up to that level because this type of woman is not as understanding as we half-steppers tend to be. She knows she is rare and expects only the best.
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I don't get the analogy. The OP didn't say anything about his partner's success in her career. He said they are compatible but that the physical attraction has waned significantly.[/quote]

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