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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Weird that so many think that reading email is so much worse then sleeping with your SIL's husband[/b].[/quote] OP here. I was thinking the same thing! The responses have been interesting and I'm surprised that so many think we should just let it go. It's food for thought. We thought that perhaps we could make my mom end it by telling her how awful and selfish she is being. If it is found out I think it would make our relationship with my aunt very hard (hard for her to be around us) and it would presumably ruin the remaining (good) relationship between my mom & dad not to mention my mom and the rest of my dad's family. It would turn upside 3 generations of a small and close family that have, for better or worse, found a way to forgive and move forward through lots of sh&% including cheating. [/quote] No one thinks that reading an email is a worse offense, however this is not about which offense is greater. We strongly feel OP had no business reading her mother's email. Older generations are different than us, perhaps the SIL knows and divorce is not an option for her. Is she Catholic? Don't you say yourself that you cannot confirm a physical affair, such as SEX, yet you call this an affair? Please explain what is going on if they are not sleeping together.[/quote]
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