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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the “H is in love with ex” thread, someone mentioned how [b]they still love their exes, loved them enough to realize they weren’t right for each other, the joy of watching exes fall in love with other people, that they were in each others’ weddings….[/b]

Do people really feel that way? I don’t have any ill will towards my exes, but I don’t really feel the need to talk to them, and while I hope they do find love, I don’t have any desire to watch it happen. When I found out an ex had gotten married and had a baby, my only thought was “good for him” and then I never gave it a second thought, never felt like reaching out to congratulate him.

The only ex I’ve ever been in touch with is a strange guy who reaches out to show me pics of his quarterly tropical vacations with beautiful women to show me what I’m definitely NOT missing. And even then it’s usually just a “looks fun” and I forget about him until 6 months later when he emails me more pictures.

Am I in the minority here? Is it pretty common to contact and care about exes?[/quote]

I don't feel that way at all. I don't love my ex, I loved MYSELF to realize it wasn't a good relationship FOR ME and got out, I walked away and didn't look back so have no idea if he fell in love or got married, etc.  I just moved on with my life. I haven't talked to him since I was ... 19 or 20? [/quote]

right, i think a teen relationship is different than one where you spent years together as adults and lived together and considered marriage, like in the other post. I have someone in that category and there is totally a feeling of "this is a parallel life" that I get when I see his life. [/quote]

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