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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Realistically it is possible they will have an affair down the road. This is more likely to happen among “nice” people than others IMO. But he will stay with you. And you will get through it. When you marry someone you marry a specific set of possible futures both good and bad and possible bogeymen intrinsic to that person and relationship; this is yours. Overall I think you will make given what you both have in the jar already so don’t worry too much don’t overreact and make sure he maintains transparency and comes to you with any weakness.[/quote]

When you say “you will get through it,” do you mean that they will stay married, or that they will actually work through their issues and have a strong marriage at some point?

I have seen the way people talk about the trauma they deal with when their partners have affairs and there is no way I would be okay with just accepting that possibly and not making a big deal about preventing it just for the sake of keeping the peace. I don’t know what I would do in OP’s situation but I’m not sure that she is in danger here of overreacting. [/quote]

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