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[quote=Anonymous]I recognize how this this could be hard for you, especially if you don't keep in touch with an ex.  But I hope you can come to see it as: your husband is a caring person and - as PP stated - it is reasonable to care for someone that you were once in love with.

I'm still in contact with 2 exes from significant relationships. I'm also happily married. Granted, my husband has since become friends with the exes. We're all friends (their spouses and myself included). I was in one of their weddings, one was in ours. I think it's ok to continue to care for someone you love(d). I still love them on some level, but at some point I loved them enough to recognize that they weren't my forever person. Watching them fall in love was truly a life joy...because I do continue to care about them. I wanted to find my forever partner and I wanted the same for them. I adore their spouses all the more bc I can appreciate that they love these guys for all the shit that drove me nuts ;)

It sounds like your husband may be in a similar situation.

Please, for both your sakes, find a couples counselor and a personal counselor to work through this insecurity. He loves you. He cares about her...cares in the sense that he cares that she's happy and content. It's not a bad trait. Please don't punish him for this because I think THAT could cause larger issues in your relationship...because then it's questioning his trust, loyalty, etc.[/quote]

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