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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. Just no. Why are you doing this to yourself instead of finding a sitter???[/quote] DH is opposed to a sitter. My mol is good with the grandkids. Once it did look like she wanted to hit my 4 yr old son, but she refrained. If she ever hit him, she’d never see any of them again. [/quote] OP, I understand how hard it is to draw boundaries with abusive family members. When everyone pretends the abuse didn’t happen, it’s hard to draw those lines, especially when you need help and it seems like you should be able to rely on family. But you are basically saying your preschooler can be a test case to see if your mom is still abusive.This is the logic of an abused person, but it’s not the safest decision to make for your children. You need to make sure they have no time alone with someone who might hurt them. [/quote]
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