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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d say back out, but still pay your part of the Airbnb [/quote]

This makes 0 sense. Let $800 go down the drain to just not attend? 
If they can spend this much money and hire a private driver for $590 a person like they’re celebrities then an extra $100-$200 per person will be nothing for them. [/quote]

Unfortunately I agree with PP that it would be wrong to back out to the airBnB.  OP knew and agreed to that cost.

You could always go to Napa and just not participate in the wine tours/driving excursions.  Just enjoy the estate and pool. [/quote]

She didn’t know. She rsvpd and that’s when the organizer told them where they would be staying and then told the cost. The organizer worked backwards and was inconsiderate. That shouldn’t be on OP.[/quote]

The time for backing out of the Air BnB was when the money was due.  She already agreed to the $800 and paid it.  I doubt someone would pay her back if she even asked.[/quote]

The time for listing all of the expenses was before sending out the invitations and especially not weeks before the bachelorette party. This is on the organizer. [/quote]

I agree the whole thing was poorly planned and unfairly handled, but OP did agree to the lodging cost after being told what the cost would be, and paid it.  She has to own that.[/quote]

If they can pay $590 pp for a private driver an extra $100 pp will be nothing. She wants to send some money to pay for a few meals for the bride? Sure. Waste $800? No. She’s not a part of the wedding party.[/quote]

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