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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]…and my therapist knows, and we went to marriage counseling and that psychologist knows. And I talked to a lawyer, who told me to get a restraining order, so I talked to the magistrate and she said she can’t do anything because I didn’t call the police at the time, and to call the police *the next time it happens.* And some of my family know, and his parents know, and a neighbor knows, and some mutual friends know, and my close friends know. And it happened a while ago. And I gave up on making plans to leave him and everyone knows that too, and nobody is particularly appalled that we continue to soldier on as a married couple, and many people tell me, well, at least he loves you, divorce with kids will be worse, or per the marriage counselor, you have to do a better job of connecting and soften your tone around him.

Yet I come on DCUM and people are immediately shrieking “divorce now!!” if someone is so much as verbally abusive or raises a hand in a threatening manner.

I just get the sense that there’s the people on DCUM who are profoundly sheltered and then there’s the therapists, marriage counselors, magistrates, police and attorneys who are like, shrug. [/quote]

No OP.

You are right those people don't care. But that doesn't mean they should not.

DH put his hand on you. Divorce is the best option period.

1. kids growing up with violence in the home. Really you want that for your kids to witness over and over again walking on eggshells daily?
2. No one deserves to be treated that way.
3. You are a sucky parent if you stay. Risking your kids mental health and possibly DH turning on them one day.
4. there are tons of organizations to help you .
5. Police can press charges without you and they will in many cases.

Oh good we have another Trumper wanting handmaid tales to come true.

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