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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you like being friends with her you have to be more flexible. Does she reach out and make plans or is it always you who makes plans? Maybe she has adhd or is an introvert and she isn’t as organized as you. Some days I just feel overwhelmed and need to stay home, and my good friends understand that. [/quote] I'm an introvert, and if someone regularly flakes and blows me off, I stop inviting them to do anything, and I don't count on them to show up for anything. Your introversion or ADHD isn't an excuse to disrespect your friends. If she regularly flakes, stop blocking out the whole day. Stop inconveniencing yourself on the off chance she's not going to flake. Also, I'd make more specific plans. Don't say "let's do something on Tuesday." Say, "Let's meet at the playground Tuesday after lunch" or whatever. [/quote]
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