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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP. I have a trans daughter. This journey is a long one. Start by using your child’s preferred name and pronouns. I know it’s really, really hard. But it’s so important. Even if they never transition, you are sending a message of unconditional love and support. You can communicate your own feelings by carefully sharing that you think rushing to meditation would be a mistake without a lot of therapy first. But allow them to dress the way they choose. Pushing back will backfire. Trans kids are at very, very high risk of suicide. Your role isn’t necessarily to agree, but to be a loving, supportive, safe presence. I know what you’re feeling. It’s so easy to tell other people to be accepting of trans kids - until it’s your kid. Then it becomes so painful. You have to dig deep and support your child. Therapy helped me process some unexpected feelings. [/quote]
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