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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get what you mean, OP.

I've been in the same boat and had that happen to me multiple times and I wonder, too. And same - I'm fit, attractive/put together, intelligent, etc. I think I might have something similar to you where I talk too much about myself/share too much too soon. Like you, not meant to be in a braggy way, but as a way to make conversation and show them who I am. But I realized I might come off as either bragging and trying to impress or just rambling on and on about stuff they're not interesting in.

So I try to make a point to make sure I'm asking them questions about themselves too. I've even gone so far as to make a list of questions I want to ask a guy so I have some go-to's if the conversation trails off. Not random weirdo questions, but just things to show him that I'm interested in getting know him and that I've been listening to things he's told me so far. [/quote]

^ But I also had a situation where I met a guy. *Thought* everything went well. Wasn't fireworks or anything, but conversation flowed easily, had some laughs. He said he was interested in seeing me again and we discussed availability etc. He messaged me later saying he enjoyed meeting me and asked if we could meet the following week, I said yes. Then a couple days later, I went to the app and he'd blocked me. And I just never heard from him. It was just super weird. Like why go through all that? I'm a big girl, just tell me you're not interested. That was a new one for me. [/quote]

He probably has a girlfriend and got caught.[/quote]

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