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[quote=Anonymous]While I am very happy to have my two kids there are times when I think about what if we had only had one. It's a different family dynamic and I think about the energy my husband and I had when we just had our first child. And how in love with her we were. That is not to say I regret the second in any way or that we weren't in love with her, but it was a rough pregnancy, premature birth, NICU stay, and a bunch of other stuff that makes a long story, but suffice it to say it changes the dynamic. Funnily enough, even though I had never really thought about a third, when the second was about a year old I remember mourning that we wouldn't have another. I think the best we can do is make the most of what we have been given and work to build solid relationships and raise good adults.[/quote]
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