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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Just asked DH how he posed it to his dad. He said he absolutely agreed with me asking the question, and presented it as a united front that we (he and I) wanted the information. He said that in no way on his end did he make it seem like “Larla wants to know…”

So we’re thinking now that he is going to send a message to MIL and FIL and me, stating that I had nothing to do with the trip being canceled, and that if MIL wants to know more about how that decision came about, she can take it up with FIL and the other logistical leads.

Thank you all! [/quote]

I think from now on your DH should just say "I would like ....." when talking to his parents. since he wanted to know how many people were vaccinated at the family reunion, there was no reason for him to bring up with his dad the fact that you wanted to know also. obvisouly then it became "Larla wants to know and sent our son ahead to ask". he talks to his parents then he asks on his own behalf, not "also yours"[/quote]

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