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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean this with kindness, but you sound a little co-dependent.

It’s a pretty big red flag that 1. He’s being grouchy with you and 2. You think it’s your responsibility to take care of him so he’s not grouchy.

All you really have to say is “let me know how I can help”. Then trust he’ll let you know.

He needs to be responsible for learning how to manage his own stress. You can always be there for him, of course, but he needs to figure out if he needs exercise, alone time, connection with you, etc. It’s not your responsibility to manage his emotions. [/quote]

OP here. I’ve been single more than I’ve been in relationships. I’ve very happy being by myself and don’t need anyone to make me happy. I’m a very caring person and don’t like to see people I love stressed.

He is never men’s or grouchy towards me. I will hear him be crabby towards friends or just doesn’t want to do anything, but he has never even raised his voice with me.

He always helps me when I’m stressed or having a bad day so I really like to help him. I’m not talking occasions stress. He can manage that. I just want our environment to be happy and comfortable. [/quote]

What you want to be is a snowplow girlfriend.

Not my thing, but whatever works for you.    [/quote]

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