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If, sometimes, my desire to help means pointing out another way to look at the problem, I think it is valid. My parents divorce was completely devastating to me. My time with my aunt was horrible. They loved me so much, but I kept feeling like unwanted baggage. It is a proven fact that most children believe they are to blame at least in part for a divorce. So when dad skips off to another country and mom moves to be closer to family but does not take her children, that makes me think of how I felt as a kid. OP could explain the situation but she didn't want to. She just covered up her ears and said "I'm not listening, la la la" and you institutionalized that by meddling on the thread. PLease don't take my comments personally. If you trace my IP address you can see who I am, we've agreed on 99 percent of issues. I like you and like this website. I just think this practice of shutting off alternate POVs is not cool. [/quote]

NP here (the one who posted the comment in the original thread about "...PP don't seem to be able to read").
I think the issue here is that the OP was not issuing this as a fait accompli, but was asking for details about how to establish this legally.  She was going to OFFER to take the children for the mother, not demand it.  The mother would have the choice and this OP was trying to give the mother options.  She also wanted to do her homework beforehand to find out how to do it.  Sometimes while researching something as complicated as this you will find out that the hurdles are too great and you can't do it...she could find this out before she offered to do it.  Your posts were more appropriate to be directed towards the mother, not the OP who was being kind and considerate.

I, for one, appreciate that Jeff monitors the boards and responds to complaints to "play nicely".   Thanks, Jeff.[/quote]

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