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[quote=Anonymous]8:46 here.  You still don't get it the difference between asking for information on [b]how [/b]to do something and asking for discussion on [b]whether [/b]something should be done. I contacted Jeff because responses like yours aren't helpful or germane and he's been clear that he wants DCUM to be both.  If you couldn't resist the compulsion to opine on the merits of doing it, why didn't you start your own thread?  Why do you think you get to define the direction of a thread?  The site owners afford you the opportunity to start your own thread, if you feel this diminishes the sites credibility, why do you stay?  Since DCUM is the sole source of the owners income, they know best what contributes to the site's success and what takes away from it.  Since they [b]will [/b]intervene, we can infer what they think contributes to the site and what doesn't.  Posts like yours do not.  Get over it or start your own thread about it.

Again, posts like yours that continue to misconstrue a question, diverts the thread and degenerates into speculation of an OP's motives does not contribute to this website.  I was clear in my thread that I was [b]not [/b]trying to obtain custody of someone else's kids. We were interested in "temporary guardianship".  In no way were we trying to compel her or do anything in a hostile or adverse manner, we are making an [b]'offer'[/b].  Of course, you still can't see the difference between a post asking for specific information and a post inviting discussion and what you call 'bonafide objections', I call insinuating and misconstruing.  Seems like the moderator agreed with me or he would declined to intervene.  Oh, and in case you haven't read my update to the thread, we made our offer to the mother yesterday.  She was most appreciative and relieved.  We don't know if we will take temporary guardianship of her kids but the offer is out there and it gives her options.  It doesn't really matter what you think of it but if you want to discuss it further, start your own thread.[/quote]

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