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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're probably one of if not the reason his relationship ended so  you may as well go for it.[/quote]

OP here. I was not the reason his relationship ended. [/quote]

Oh you were there when they broke up?

Not saying you did anything wrong, but you and your friendship, and your hobby hangouts were one of the reasons. I'd put money on it.[/quote]

OP here. I became friends with his girlfriend. I was dating someone for part of the time when they were dating and we all hung out together. We never hung out alone when they were dating. They mutually agreed it was best to break up because they had very different views of their future. She wanted to move back to her hometown and be close to family, and he wanted to stay here. There were some others things too but the break up had nothing to do with me. [/quote]

Sounds like you were way to involved in the relationship.[/quote]

OP hurt. I heard this from his ex, not him. She used to talk to us about it when they were dating because she was not sure what to do. [/quote]

Girl do you not see how effed up this is? You "befriended" his ex all the while knowing you had feelings for him, let her vent to you about their relationship etc, and now you're trying to get with the guy! Maury Povich!  Jesus Christos![/quote]

OP here. This is not how it went down. We all as a group befriended her. I was attracted to him when we met but the feelings never developed until they broke up we hung out alone that first time we worked out. She vented to all of us the issues they were having and asked people for advice. I never gave any advice, only my married friends did. The group also accepted a guy I was dating for 6 months and became friends while we dated. I developed an interest in him since we started hanging out.

I was never close friends with his ex and don’t owe her anything. She moved back to her hometown and has not contacted anyone from our group. We were more acquaintances than real friends. [/quote]

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