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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask him to do something hobby related. See what he says.  Or, see if he wants to do something outside.  Act casual.  If he says no, make it not a big deal.[/quote]

OP here. We already do this. We have always hung here and there, but it has increased over the last month. [/quote]

Okay, but who is asking who? DO you always invite him to this hobby? Who does most of the asking or is it 50/50? Have you tried extending the hobby like suggesting getting a bite to eat before or after?[/quote]

OP here. He started asking first and then it became 50/50. We never hung out alone while he was dating his ex. He asked about a week after if I wanted to workout ( run) with him, and that became a weekly thing. Then he asked me to get dinner with him about a month ago when he didn’t have plans. We have hung out together for working, lunch, and dinner 1-2 times a week the first time. I had him over at my place for dinner on Friday ( he offered to help put my new furniture together), and we hung out at his place last night. I had a sore muscle from moving and he offered to massage my neck. He hasn’t made a move or anything besides that. I don’t know if he’s just lonely and wants someone to be there or if he likes me. [/quote]

It sounds like you’re just a friend or a possible hookup. He would have made a move already if he was interested in you. [/quote]

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