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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems that your husband is feeling very tied down now that you two have two young children.
The parental responsibilities that now exist seem to be dragging your husband down.

This is unfortunate however he chose to bring both of these kids into the world.
Therefore it is HIS responsibility to figure out a way to find a suitable balance in his life that includes them.

He sounds very selfish to me.
He has two young children yet complains to you that he needs more than a week of free time.
Sorry, the majority of parents do not get a week off from parenthood.

Once people have children - any notion of free time flies out the window.
Breaks from kids are luxuries that most parents can only fantasize about.

Your husband needs to realize + accept this new trajectory his life is on.[/quote]
Also, how was his childhood.  Men often start having issues with unresolved family of origin/childhood trauma when their kids reach the age they were when it started.  Happened to my spouse and he sounds a lot like yours did at that time.  Our kids are teens and he’s 50 now, processed it and he’s such a happy healthier person and the marriage is too.[/quote]

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