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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]12 & 14, been separated / divorced for 3 years. In theory it’s every other week, but Ex H has rarely made it through a full week. Also I think it’s too much back and forth for one of my children in particular, who has moderate ADHD & related anxiety and executive function issues. Ex refuses to relinquish any of his time even though he rarely takes it all. I think 50/50 sucks for kids, too much back and forth. I would prefer the classic every other weekend even if it meant I had less time with me ie I was the weekend parent. Idk, divorce sucks. It’s only better than the alternative of an utterly intolerable marriage. [/quote] Thank you this is a really important consideration. Our son has moderate ADHD (medicated) and some sensory-ish slash behavioral challenges at times. The ADHD meds help a lot but I do wonder what impact frequent transitions would have on him. [/quote]
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