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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Understand that your ex is not going to be obligated to do anything in your interest once you say the magic words.

He won't even be compelled to act in his own or even his kids' best interests. [/quote]

We have said it already. Multiple times. We are planning the logistics. And now that we have the logistics, it is hitting me (i dont know about him— he says he is scared also) hard. Yes, I have romantic fantasies about being married to a guy I can actually save for a future with and Im sure he has fantasies about a nonmean girl who supports his passions.

I thought finances were our biggest issue too. We had aggressively paid off his student loans— all his salary went there. I took care of everything. I thought we would be happy to pay them off, and start saving for college. Instead, it’s a f$&%#^ boat. Yes I am mean because it’s really hard for me. He and I both grew up poor but he seems to not care about the future because he might as well enjoy it now rather than fight inflation, whereas I am always petrified I’d lose my job and we wouldnt have enough savings to float us by.

Im gonna sign out now, but I just wanted to say thank you for all the feedback. I am scared to talk to others because maybe I am in denial, and this has been helpful.

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